How To Not Give a Fuck
Just don’t.
Not giving a fuck starts with the desolation of social media. Delete your Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat and Instagram. They’re cesspits of vanity designed to hog your attention and feed your ego. The deletion of accounts is therapeutic and life post-social media leaves you blissfully unaware of the tidings of irrelevant people.
Not giving a fuck starts with being bold. It’s about finding your own style, chartering your own journey, establishing a name for yourself. Forget blending in, it’s all about standing out. Get a tattoo, wear something extreme, start your own coffee shop that only sells black coffee because you like it that way and anyone who disagrees can get the fuck out.
Not giving a fuck starts with finding value from within. Your opinion of yourself should be measured by your own standards and criteria. The opinions of others don’t define you; what does is your character and your actions. Abide by your own rules, live by your own standards, maintain value from within.
Not giving a fuck starts with moving away. If you never leave your home town you’re doomed to experience the same attitudes wherever you go. Your perspective will shrink and eventually you’ll succumb to the crowd-think. Move to a new country, experience new cultures, listen to different viewpoints, challenge yourself.
Not giving a fuck starts with being original. Not giving a fuck is built on the precipice of individuality. If you’re constantly pretending to be someone else, then you’ll never be yourself, and you’ll always be giving a fuck. Form your own opinions, create your own style, shape your own path, be your own person.
Not giving a fuck ends with giving a fuck. Give a fuck about the right things. Give a fuck about family, give a fuck about friends, give a fuck about matters closest to your heart. Give a fuck where a fuck is deserved. You can only not give a fuck when you’ve given all your fucks to begin with.
